Magic is something you make
Magic is something you make
Rules control someone else.
Boundaries protect your own integrity.
This six minute video is about everyday leadership, the small things we do that affect other people’s life in positve ways. The story is about lollipop leadership, you’ll understand when you’ve seen the video. Small things matter!
We have all changed someone’s life — usually without even realizing it. In this funny talk, Drew Dudley calls on all of us to celebrate leadership as the everyday act of improving each other’s lives.
You can watch the video below or at Everyday leadership – Drew Dudley.
Be consistent and walk your talk.
Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.
Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.
You should always be a beginner at something – Marianne Williamson
At the center of your being you have the answer. You know who you are and you know what you want. – Rumi
You live most of your life inside your head. Make sure it’s a nice place to be.
This is a video with an important message – real life contacts matter.
Watch the video below or at YouTube Can We Auto-Correct Humanity?
What people do speaks louder than what they say.
What actually gets done makes more difference than tons of good intentions.
If the stuff that you’re writing is not for yourself, it won’t work. – Stephen King
There comes a point in your life when you need to stop reading other people’s books and write your own.
I got this quote in one of my Daily Forwards Step:
An old man said to his grandson, “Boy, I have two tigers caged within me. One is love and compassion. The other is fear and anger.”
The young boy asked, “Which one will win, grandfather?”
The old man replied, “The one I feed.”
I prefer to feed love and compassion, which tiger are YOU feeding?
I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me.
I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.
Everyone is my teacher. Some I seek. Some I subconsciously attract. Often I learn simply by observing others. Some may be completely unaware that I’m learning from them, yet I bow deeply in gratitude.
We are all the same as human beings, we all want to lead a happy life. We can think of every day as a new day. When we wake up we can remind ourselves – ‘I need to be happy, I need to have warm feelings towards others. This builds self-confidence, honesty, transparency, which leads to trust. And trust is the basis of friendship. We are social animals and we need friends.
Text from the Dalai Lama Facebook-page.
I looked in temples, churches and mosques. But I found the Divine within my heart.
Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of all that and still be calm in your heart.
Within you there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time.
Do not use Buddhism to become a Buddhist. Use it to become better at whatever else in your life that you are doing already.